Third Eye Realm

For everyone who has lost a loved one, here is where you can talk about them and remember them

I lost my stepfather last year.  He was a father to me in every sense.  It has been very hard.  I had to be strong for everyone when he passed  and find myself getting upset now.  I do feel like he is still here.  I can hear him and smell him,  my girls also have had these experiences.  He visits me in my dreams and it is as if he is here and eveything is normal but I know he is dead. 

I lost my mother when I was 4 yrs old,my father when  I was 9,my maternal grandmother when I was 10,my cousin when I was about 10,and my great grandmother in 2008.I miss them all very much.I used to be able to go on for weeks without thinking about my great grandmother but recently with all the mayhem going on in my life  think about her more than ever.I can't dream of her,I ued to have open talks with her and now I kind of cringe when I think of her being gone.She was my guide here on earth and I wish I could talk to her now but it seems like my life fell apart once she died.I miss her so much she was my bestfriend and it hurts me so much t know she is gone.

kimberlylhn at July 12, 2010 at 3:34 PM

I lost my stepfather last year.  He was a father to me in every sense.  It has been very hard.  I had to be strong for everyone when he passed  and find myself getting upset now.  I do feel like he is still here.  I can hear him and smell him,  my girls also have had these experiences.  He visits me in my dreams and it is as if he is here and eveything is normal but I know he is dead. 

Visits in dreams are them coming to you and saying they love you.. Losing a loved one is tough but know that he is watching over you and your little girls... Oh and ps your youngest daughter see's him clearly, she can't hear him so much that's what your oldest daughter picks up is his voice but your youngest sees him... There is something to do with a red box? or like the cherry wood. It isn't a jewelry chest but he kept something in it that had a smell.. All of you smell it.

GIGI8191 at July 12, 2010 at 11:57 PM

I lost my mother when I was 4 yrs old,my father when  I was 9,my maternal grandmother when I was 10,my cousin when I was about 10,and my great grandmother in 2008.I miss them all very much.I used to be able to go on for weeks without thinking about my great grandmother but recently with all the mayhem going on in my life  think about her more than ever.I can't dream of her,I ued to have open talks with her and now I kind of cringe when I think of her being gone.She was my guide here on earth and I wish I could talk to her now but it seems like my life fell apart once she died.I miss her so much she was my bestfriend and it hurts me so much t know she is gone.

She isn't gone, think of her more as having moved out of town and all you have to do is pick up the phone to talk to her. Might be a one-sided conversation but she'll let you know she is listening.

LutaWolf at July 13, 2010 at 2:04 PM

kimberlylhn at July 12, 2010 at 3:34 PM

I lost my stepfather last year.  He was a father to me in every sense.  It has been very hard.  I had to be strong for everyone when he passed  and find myself getting upset now.  I do feel like he is still here.  I can hear him and smell him,  my girls also have had these experiences.  He visits me in my dreams and it is as if he is here and eveything is normal but I know he is dead. 

Visits in dreams are them coming to you and saying they love you.. Losing a loved one is tough but know that he is watching over you and your little girls... Oh and ps your youngest daughter see's him clearly, she can't hear him so much that's what your oldest daughter picks up is his voice but your youngest sees him... There is something to do with a red box? or like the cherry wood. It isn't a jewelry chest but he kept something in it that had a smell.. All of you smell it.

Thank you Luta.  It took me a min. to think about the "red box".  Then my Fiance pointed out something.  Could it be a box we keep something of his in?  When I think about it his presence became stronger when it was brought into the house.  My girls hear his laugh or hear him call their names.  You are correct my youngest has seen him (and not heard him).  He was like her best friend and has had a hard time so I wasn't sure if it was something she was manifesting or if it was really him.  I know he visits often....I can feel him...and the days I do not feel him are my hardest.  I worry that I am not letting him go.  Is it possible for us to keep them here when they should be moving on? 

LutaWolf at July 13, 2010 at 2:06 PM

GIGI8191 at July 12, 2010 at 11:57 PM

I lost my mother when I was 4 yrs old,my father when  I was 9,my maternal grandmother when I was 10,my cousin when I was about 10,and my great grandmother in 2008.I miss them all very much.I used to be able to go on for weeks without thinking about my great grandmother but recently with all the mayhem going on in my life  think about her more than ever.I can't dream of her,I ued to have open talks with her and now I kind of cringe when I think of her being gone.She was my guide here on earth and I wish I could talk to her now but it seems like my life fell apart once she died.I miss her so much she was my bestfriend and it hurts me so much t know she is gone.

She isn't gone, think of her more as having moved out of town and all you have to do is pick up the phone to talk to her. Might be a one-sided conversation but she'll let you know she is listening.

thanks Luta,but how exactly will I know?I guess I have been looking for a hug,or a tug at my shirt,or parfume,or even a sighting....a medium once told me that they communicate with me through songs.How true is that?

kimberlylhn at July 13, 2010 at 4:20 PM

LutaWolf at July 13, 2010 at 2:04 PM

kimberlylhn at July 12, 2010 at 3:34 PM

I lost my stepfather last year.  He was a father to me in every sense.  It has been very hard.  I had to be strong for everyone when he passed  and find myself getting upset now.  I do feel like he is still here.  I can hear him and smell him,  my girls also have had these experiences.  He visits me in my dreams and it is as if he is here and eveything is normal but I know he is dead. 

Visits in dreams are them coming to you and saying they love you.. Losing a loved one is tough but know that he is watching over you and your little girls... Oh and ps your youngest daughter see's him clearly, she can't hear him so much that's what your oldest daughter picks up is his voice but your youngest sees him... There is something to do with a red box? or like the cherry wood. It isn't a jewelry chest but he kept something in it that had a smell.. All of you smell it.

Thank you Luta.  It took me a min. to think about the "red box".  Then my Fiance pointed out something.  Could it be a box we keep something of his in?  When I think about it his presence became stronger when it was brought into the house.  My girls hear his laugh or hear him call their names.  You are correct my youngest has seen him (and not heard him).  He was like her best friend and has had a hard time so I wasn't sure if it was something she was manifesting or if it was really him.  I know he visits often....I can feel him...and the days I do not feel him are my hardest.  I worry that I am not letting him go.  Is it possible for us to keep them here when they should be moving on? 

Yes it could be a box you keep something of his in!! Both of your daughters are very gifted it's just easier with him because they aren't afraid. Understand? Youre grandfather is not a ghost but a spirit the difference being that he isn't trapped here on earth. He actively comes here from Heaven so you are not keeping him here or doing anything wrong by acknowledging that your being blessed by knowing your grandfather is coming by and saying "I love you". It should be looked on as a blessing because it's only more confirmation that the otherside really does exist.

GIGI8191 at July 13, 2010 at 4:54 PM

LutaWolf at July 13, 2010 at 2:06 PM

GIGI8191 at July 12, 2010 at 11:57 PM

I lost my mother when I was 4 yrs old,my father when  I was 9,my maternal grandmother when I was 10,my cousin when I was about 10,and my great grandmother in 2008.I miss them all very much.I used to be able to go on for weeks without thinking about my great grandmother but recently with all the mayhem going on in my life  think about her more than ever.I can't dream of her,I ued to have open talks with her and now I kind of cringe when I think of her being gone.She was my guide here on earth and I wish I could talk to her now but it seems like my life fell apart once she died.I miss her so much she was my bestfriend and it hurts me so much t know she is gone.

She isn't gone, think of her more as having moved out of town and all you have to do is pick up the phone to talk to her. Might be a one-sided conversation but she'll let you know she is listening.

thanks Luta,but how exactly will I know?I guess I have been looking for a hug,or a tug at my shirt,or parfume,or even a sighting....a medium once told me that they communicate with me through songs.How true is that?

 

Think of a song that you attribute to her now think about how frequently it's played when it really isn't that new of a song... Spirits have a way of letting us know they are around.

I lost my mom when I was 17.  She was in the hospital for 7 years before she died, and I only got to see her once during that time.  I wanted to be with her, more than anything, but others made that impossible.  I haven't forgiven myself for that.

LutaWolf at July 13, 2010 at 6:34 PM

kimberlylhn at July 13, 2010 at 4:20 PM

LutaWolf at July 13, 2010 at 2:04 PM

kimberlylhn at July 12, 2010 at 3:34 PM

I lost my stepfather last year.  He was a father to me in every sense.  It has been very hard.  I had to be strong for everyone when he passed  and find myself getting upset now.  I do feel like he is still here.  I can hear him and smell him,  my girls also have had these experiences.  He visits me in my dreams and it is as if he is here and eveything is normal but I know he is dead. 

Visits in dreams are them coming to you and saying they love you.. Losing a loved one is tough but know that he is watching over you and your little girls... Oh and ps your youngest daughter see's him clearly, she can't hear him so much that's what your oldest daughter picks up is his voice but your youngest sees him... There is something to do with a red box? or like the cherry wood. It isn't a jewelry chest but he kept something in it that had a smell.. All of you smell it.

Thank you Luta.  It took me a min. to think about the "red box".  Then my Fiance pointed out something.  Could it be a box we keep something of his in?  When I think about it his presence became stronger when it was brought into the house.  My girls hear his laugh or hear him call their names.  You are correct my youngest has seen him (and not heard him).  He was like her best friend and has had a hard time so I wasn't sure if it was something she was manifesting or if it was really him.  I know he visits often....I can feel him...and the days I do not feel him are my hardest.  I worry that I am not letting him go.  Is it possible for us to keep them here when they should be moving on? 

Yes it could be a box you keep something of his in!! Both of your daughters are very gifted it's just easier with him because they aren't afraid. Understand? Youre grandfather is not a ghost but a spirit the difference being that he isn't trapped here on earth. He actively comes here from Heaven so you are not keeping him here or doing anything wrong by acknowledging that your being blessed by knowing your grandfather is coming by and saying "I love you". It should be looked on as a blessing because it's only more confirmation that the otherside really does exist.

Thank you again Luta!  Thanks for confirming what I have felt about my girls.  3 by the way...lol.  It is a wonderful thing to hear he is visiting from heaven and that I am not being selfish wanting him around.  Just needed reassurance.  I thought I knew the difference between spirit and ghost but I tend to doubt myself these days as to what I know.  lol. 

We all doubt ourselfs sometimes, it's only natural when the majority of society tells us this isn't real. You will get there in trusting yourself, it just takes time. Glad I could help!

Jenna at July 13, 2010 at 7:34 PM

I lost my mom when I was 17.  She was in the hospital for 7 years before she died, and I only got to see her once during that time.  I wanted to be with her, more than anything, but others made that impossible.  I haven't forgiven myself for that.

Hun she wasn't there. Ppl in sever comas, sever altimars, or severly ill to the point of wasting away are met and already taken away. Their spirits might come back to their bodies to visit once in awhile but the otherside isn't big on letting the dying suffer... They freely come and go from the otherside and you visited her more than you realize. Twice a week at least our spirits will live our bodies and astro-travel to loved ones or to the otherside and those so close to the veil can and do hear/see us.. Besides even though she is no longer with us she can still hear you and I wouldn't be suprised to know that sometimes you could almost swear you smell her. She is around.

LutaWolf at July 14, 2010 at 10:48 AM

Jenna at July 13, 2010 at 7:34 PM

I lost my mom when I was 17.  She was in the hospital for 7 years before she died, and I only got to see her once during that time.  I wanted to be with her, more than anything, but others made that impossible.  I haven't forgiven myself for that.

Hun she wasn't there. Ppl in sever comas, sever altimars, or severly ill to the point of wasting away are met and already taken away. Their spirits might come back to their bodies to visit once in awhile but the otherside isn't big on letting the dying suffer... They freely come and go from the otherside and you visited her more than you realize. Twice a week at least our spirits will live our bodies and astro-travel to loved ones or to the otherside and those so close to the veil can and do hear/see us.. Besides even though she is no longer with us she can still hear you and I wouldn't be suprised to know that sometimes you could almost swear you smell her. She is around.

Thank you so, so much.  That helps me more than I can ever say.  I have been very open with other parts of my life that were hard to talk about, but this is one thing that I have kept inside for a long time.  I have always been worried that she thought I had abandoned her since I wasn't there with her.  I tried to stay for as long as I could but when it all happened I was 11 and was moved several states away.  Again, thank you, so very much.

It's what I'm here to do hun, hugs hugs, glad I could help!

I miss my bacha....she and my aunt were the two loving lights while I was being abusive by my parents. If it haden't been for them showing me love who knows the person I would have become. My bacha died before I had the chance to tell her how very much I loved and love her(she came from Poland as a young girl with her first husband with nothing but a little money, the clothes in a suitcase, and a dream. She never learned to read or write English but she could speak it...she learned she said for her grandchildren to come)....and I still miss her.....how she used to cook for me.....tell me stories,let me be me and love me, slip money in my pockets and tell me to not say anything and to use it to buy something.......and my aunt...her beautiful red convertible with the white interior, she'd take me for rides,...feed me as well lolol, she was the one who taught me how to tie my shoes...her nicname for me was Patrick...no I have no idea why...lolol......as far as  I know she's still alive.....I had to leave my state and home to get away from the abuse, both from the ex and my parents and haven't been back......anyway Aunt Jane and Bacha(her name was Sophia) I love you both very much and thank you for loving a shy, hurt little girl.

i miss my mom and my grandma so much ;__; there the ones who raised me.. and i always regret i never got to say goodbye

i just recently lost my grandma i was really close to and im still tryin to get over it cause i was very close to her